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Books Natalie recommends to clients, organized by what you're working through. Not every book will be right for you right now, but the right one at the right time can shift something.
Helpful for Couples
- 8 Rules of LoveJay Shetty
- Equal PartnersKate Mangino
- The 5 Love LanguagesGary Chapman
- Hold Me TightSue Johnson
- AttachedLevine & Heller
Relationships & Communication
- Codependent No MoreMelody Beattie
- GroupChristie Tate
- Nonviolent CommunicationMarshall B. Rosenberg
Trauma
- The Body Keeps the ScoreBessel Van Der Kolk
- The Boy Who Was Raised as a DogBruce Perry
- No Bad PartsRichard Schwartz
Family & Childhood
- Adult Children of Emotionally Immature ParentsLindsay C. Gibson
Introduction to Therapy
- Maybe You Should Talk to SomeoneLori Gottlieb
- The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ckMark Manson
Finding Your Voice
- UntamedGlennon Doyle
Spirituality
- The AlchemistPaulo Coelho
- The Forty Rules of LoveElif Shafak
- By the River Piedra I Sat Down and WeptPaulo Coelho
- The Four AgreementsDon Miguel Ruiz
- The Power of NowEckhart Tolle
- The Untethered SoulMichael A. Singer
Intuition & Spiritual Abilities
- SignsLaura Lynne Jackson
- Many Lives, Many MastersBrian Weiss
- Trust Your VibesSonia Choquette
Boundaries & Saying No
- Never Split the DifferenceChris Voss
- Set Boundaries, Find PeaceNedra Tawwab
Purpose
- IkigaiHector Garcia
- Man's Search for MeaningViktor Frankl
Vulnerability
- The Gifts of ImperfectionBrené Brown
Neurodiversity
- Unmasking AutismDevon Price
Grief
- I'm Glad My Mom DiedJennette McCurdy
- Here AfterAmy Lin
- For One More DayMitch Albom
Habits & Routine
- Atomic HabitsJames Clear
Narcissistic Healing
- It's Not YouDr. Ramani Durvasula
Sex & Sexuality
- Mating in CaptivityEsther Perel
- Come as You AreEmily Nagoski
Interesting Reads
- The Wisdom of PsychopathsKevin Dutton
- The Birth Order BookKevin Leman
Home & Environment
- The Little Book of HyggeMeik Wiking
- The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying UpMarie Kondo
Feelings
- Atlas of the HeartBrené Brown
- Permission to FeelMarc Brackett
- Radical CompassionTara Brach
Discovering Yourself
- QuietSusan Cain, especially for introverts